Are Boys and Girls Wired to Learn Differently?
John Gray's book Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars is a best-seller for good reason. It often seems that males experience - and react to - life quite differently than females do.
Gender differences become apparent at an early age and can be seen in the different ways girls and boys play and learn. In a first-grade classroom, it's not unusual to find the girls working quietly at their desks or cooperatively in small groups as the boys toss paper wads through the air, make silly faces at each other across the room, or seem bored, distracted and restless when seated. While many girls politely raise their hands to answer the teacher's questions, many boys blurt out their answers. Out on the playground girls play an orderly game of jump rope, reciting rhyming songs, while boys bounce balls, race around with no apparent purpose, while teasing girls and tackling other boys.
It may help to think about gender differences as being driven by both internal forces (biology and anatomy) and external forces (such as socialization and stereotypes). Here we'll focus on some of the internal forces by highlighting research that compares male and female biology, neurology and behavior.
Other Internal Forces at Work
Before we delve into gender differences, it's important to note that gender is only one of several inborn factors contributing to a person's unique makeup. Other internal forces that shape who we are and how we behave include:
- temperament (e.g., shyness, energy level)
- intelligence
- natural abilities (e.g., creativity) and disabilities (e.g., dyslexia, AD/HD)
With that caveat in mind, let's review what researchers have discovered about gender-based learning differences.
Brain Science: "Looking Under the Hood"
Over the past decade or so, researchers have attempted to determine what, if any, natural differences exist between male and female brains when it comes to learning. Research in neuroscience has found gender variation in human brain anatomy, chemical processes and function. These variations occur throughout the brain and influence language, memory, emotion, vision, hearing and navigation - all elements in human learning.
Researchers now know that the size of almost every lobe of the human brain is different in males and females. While researchers still don't fully understand how this relates to cognitive ability, they can make some good guesses.
For example, imaging studies consistently show that the region of the brain called the hippocampus, which is crucial to memory storage and spatial mapping of the physical world, is larger in women than in men. This might explain why, for example, men and women navigate differently. (Yes, that includes why "men don't stop and ask for directions!") Research suggests that men tend to navigate by estimating distance in space and orientation, while women use monitoring landmarks. Having a larger hippocampus may explain why girls generally have an easier time remembering what they learn.
In girls, the corpus callosum, which connects the two hemispheres (or halves) of the brain, is generally larger than in boys. This enables more "cross talk" between the hemispheres of the brain. Boys' brains, on the other hand, are structured to compartmentalize learning. As a result, girls are usually better than boys at multitasking and can make quick transitions between lessons and tasks (Havers, 1995). On the other hand, a boy's ability to compartmentalize learning might result in better clarity and focus in certain situations.
Studies have shown that girls tend to use the areas of the brain devoted to verbal and emotional functioning, while boys generally use the areas of the brain geared toward spatial and mechanical tasks. (Moir and Jessel, 1989; Rich, 2000).
The male brain needs to recharge and reorient by entering what brain scientists call a rest state. Boys may naturally drift off or "space out" during a lesson. However, they are able to stay engaged in visual or hands-on learning that involves symbols, objects, diagrams and pictures but zone out when too many words are used (Gurian, 2001).

