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Safety Nets for Struggling Students
Here are some issues to consider in evaluating the safety nets that your school provides to identify and support students who are having trouble.
Almost all students at some point during their years in school go through difficult academic, social or emotional periods that interfere with learning. Educators sometimes end up playing the role of emotional or physical support provider, alongside their role as teachers.

Schools vary in their inclination and ability to provide support that students need.

Here are some questions to help you assess your school's efforts to help students in need.

  • How does the school identify children who are in need of additional support? What proactive efforts does the school make in cases where children are failing academically?
  • Is tutoring or additional help available for students? Are they encouraged to take advantage of that assistance? Is tutoring provided by volunteers, teachers or students?
  • At the high school level, does the school have a program designed to prevent students from dropping out? Is the program successful?
  • Does the school provide resources for students who have been identified as learning disabled? Is a staff member trained to diagnose learning disabilities? School districts are required to supply these services, but individual schools may not always offer them.
  • Is there a health clinic on campus?
  • Is the size of the counseling staff adequate to meet the needs of the student body? When school funding was cut in the early 1990s, counseling services were often eliminated. Many schools will tell you that their counseling resources are inadequate.
  • Are students aware of the resources available to them, and are they encouraged to use them?

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Comments From GreatSchools.net Users
03/5/2008:
"Thanks for the questions. I'm taking them to school tomorrow. Thanks for all the ideas in your newsletters. Our middle schools response to my grandson's challenges is assigning on campus restriction. He sits in a room all day with other students and a proctor. This is a lesson in learning how to serve time, not a means to helping develop skills or resolve problems."

02/12/2008:
"I recently changed my school district for both my children. This summer I transitioned them (Not easy), but I did it and in turn this has been the worst academic year for my 9 yr old son. He is miserable and has no motivation what so ever to go to school let alone actually pay attention or do work. He is failing almost every subject. His teacher and I have met periodically to plan out how we can help. I do not think this is helping nor is the fact that this teacher has 33 students in her class. I am desperate to help my son feel better about himself and his grades. Can you please advise."

01/28/2008:
"My son is struggling in Algebra. How can I get tutoring for him?"

01/24/2008:
"I am struggling to get help from my daughters school. What do I need to do to get free tutoring for my daughter since her counselor and teachers are not very helpful?"

01/18/2008:
"my sons are both in public schools and both have dificulties both in the same but also different subjects they both have been said to have a learning problem but somtimes i wonder if the teacher is taking enough time with these students to actually give proper exampels and or explain to them in terms that they acn actually understand sometimes it takes more effort than just to rite an example on the board some students actually need the teacher to take the time to go to the child and have the child give the teacher the example back and explain it to the the teacher on how they understood the exampel instead of teachers just asking students if they undrestand because there are popular students that are doing badley and just have to much pride to say they dont understand but the teacher should know which students that need the extra help and the studend dosnt want to feel bad in asking for that help because they dont want to feel imbarssed and when a teacher scolds child in f! ront of whole class it makes the student upset and wants just to give up all together than their grades fall even fauther behind then they feel like a failer "

01/15/2008:
"I started my son at the age of 4 years old. Now he is in the 5th grade and is failing and because his school is a 'Title One' school they will not let me retain him so that he will be on correct level he should really be on. Not sure what to do at this point. I am told by the School Board that it is not the parents discretion but the teachers. How can the teacher know your child better than you. Can anyone help me?"

10/30/2007:
"My son just started sixth grade in a public school. I've spoken to the school staff about a service called Beyond the Bell, which is a tutoring program offered through the school. My son won't be able to use this tutoring program, because he doesn't receive a 'free lunch.' I don't believe children should be excluded from tutoring programs just because they don't receive a 'free lunch.' I'm a working mother, and it's not fair that my child should not receive tutoring services because I can afford to pay $1.50 a day for lunch! My son has Asperger's Syndrome and has an IEP. Shouldn't that account for something?"

06/25/2007:
"my son wil be a sophmore at a private school and has been in private school since kindergarten. He was diagnosed with ADD and a bit of a learning disability in math when in first grade. He has struggled but has seemed to get through with tutoring out of school and after school with an older student or sometimes a teacher. I know the'no child left behind' act does not apply to private schools but what I don't understand is WHY?? We pay school district taxes and don't use the schools. Testing is free through the public school system but it takes forever to get in since we are at a private school.My son is growing out of his ADD and learning to cope with it.His main problem is in test taking. He does great with class work, homework and special projects he works on with a group at school or at home. I have asked the school to motify his test so there aren't as many questions or give it to him in the am or after school so that he is not timed. Being timed is what makes him n! ervous. School says they cannot single him out and make exceptions even though there other kids who would benefit from this way of test taking. I don't want him in a public school because he will be labled learing disabled and put in Special ED classed and he is not special ed. Any suggestions ????????"

06/4/2007:
"my daughter is in second grade and although i feel she's smart i know she's stuggling,i got her evauated but the school doesn't seem to be helping her who can i complain to for the school to get checked in on not only with & for my daughter but the other children in that school that need help."

05/3/2007:
"My son has been struggling in school since his freshmen year of high school he is a wonderful and respectful child but when it comes to school he is having a hard time couping with a large number of people which makes him nervuos and unable to learn and i dont know what to do with him anymore i not going to give up on him but its hard and i need some direction on what to do with him now before its to late."

01/3/2007:
"I am having trouble with my sons shcool. He has bipolar disorder, ODD and ADHD. I needto get him a child advicate but don't know were!"

12/1/2006:
"My Daughter is a senior this year and she is having problems she ie failing some classes. the school proviedes her with tutorial classes , but her learning dissability is retaining information. She passed the CAHSEE English part has taken math 3 times and not passed. What else can be done?"

11/14/2006:
"Unfortunately, teachers are so concerned about 'exposing' the children to the required materials that they no longer teach. Instead of improving, our educational system is failing our children (in every sense of the word). It is sad to see the public school system is leaving kids behind."

11/14/2006:
"Unfortunately, teachers are so concerned about 'exposing' the children to the required materials that they no longer teach. Instead of improving, our educational system is failing our children (in every sense of the word). It is sad to see the public school system is leaving kids behind."

09/14/2006:
"I have had very similiar frustrations and difficulties with my son as many of you have had. The one thing that I have learned it that it is so important to be aware of what is going on in the classroom. For most of us this can be a difficult thing when we have to juggle full time work and family responsibilites. It took my son's school's almost a full year to test him for a learning disability due to the back log of students that needed to be tested. Now a year later with a plan in place he will be monitored to see what is going to work best for him. I know my son is bright, but I think his style of learning is complex and he really struggles in a tradional classroom. I continue to search for ways to assist him in learning. I am grateful to this web site. It has provided some wonderful information. School is definately not as fun as it was when I was in grade school. Way too much homework, the brunt of our children's learning seems to fall on our shoulders. We all need to co! ntinue to advocate for our children!"

06/12/2006:
"I dont think I could say my thought any clearer than From Florida 12/8/05. She is right on...the testing and the little time spent on subjects is very stressful for everyone and not progressive. I do not like the way that education is set up now at all. Our children are illiterate. It scares me. My grand is not 'dumb' and she is struggling. I think we are asking the impossible of these many kids unable to absorb things like multiplication in a months time! Too much of the work is being sent home for them to do also because that class time is used to study for taking tests...and more tests..it is ridiculous. Our children are not learning and that is the bottom line. Whatever it takes for them to learn is what we need to focus on and since the system before the testing seemed to give positive results, why not return to that? Things made a huge turn when dress codes and God were kicked out of school too. I would love seeing them both return to school. I like the ide! a of wearing uniforms. I think things need to change for the teachers and the students. I dont like the books either! My heart goes out to those in the school systems now no matter what capacity they are involved. It is hard...I am deeply concerned."

12/8/2005:
"I am absolutely disgusted with the government's idea of an education. When I was in school, teachers spent adequate time teaching a subject in order for the students to absorb it. Today, subjects are crammed into the day leaving little time for kids to understand what they are doing. Mastering something (including sports, education, etc.) involves repetition, which the current system leaves little time for. My son is in third grade and is doing poorly in school. We moved to FL from the Northeast 2 months ago. He excelled in private school. Now, with FCAT pressure and the Federal No Child Left Behind Act, he is among the many children that are suffering. I have never heard of being taught multiplication tables for one month then moving on to division. We have teachers who are fed up with teaching, burnt out and have no time to address the issues that will lead to educational success. A letter was sent home from my child's school asking for volunteers to take home stu! dent work on Fridays, correct it and return it to the school the following Monday. What are the teachers getting paid for if they can't even correct their own students' work. Unbelievable! Our children are not being offered a quality education. Instead they are being done an injustice. A third grader spending 2-3 hours on homework is unnecessary. I wish all the parents with struggling students success and reprieve from this uncaring system."

11/3/2005:
"PLEASE,PLEASE HELP MY CHILD.HE IS AN 8TH GRADE STUDENT WITH A 3.5 GRADE LEVEL.I WAS JUST INFORMED THAT HE WILL GRADUATE WITH A 5TH GRADE LEVEL(HOW SAD)AND THAT HE WILL NOT RECEIVE A DIPLOMA,HE WILL GET A SPECIAL EDUCATION DIPLOMA.HE IS HEARING IMPAIRED AND HAS BEEN IN SCHOOL SINCE HE WAS 15 MONTHS OLD. I AM AT MY WITS END.I WANT HIM TO SUCEED IN LIFE BUT OUR SCHOOL SYSTEM IS NO HELP AND I CAN'T DO IT ALONE ANY MORE.PLEASE HELP US,THANK YOU. SINCERELY,A DESPERATELY CONCERNED MOTHER"

10/28/2005:
"My Daughter is in the second grade and struggling also. We've had a conference with her Teacher after the first six week grading period. We the had a meeting with the school counsler and her teacher . A so called intervention process and now have another meeting almost exactly (2) months from the of the first 'intervention'. Meanwhile she is still having problems. At this particular school they have what they call ' The Tree House' Which is a One-On-One teacher/student help session, well that was what 'The Tree House' was first created for at least (8) years ago when my oldest Daughter attended the same school. When she needed extra help with math, reading, etc. she would go to the tree house. Kids loved it. Now that 'NO CHILD LEFT BEHIND' has been implimented into our schools she (my second grader) can't get in the tree house because they don't have the room, time or staff available to help her. Mean while my daughter is failing so far for the semester, because tutoring wi! ll not begin for her school until January. She needs help NOW!!!! She had trouble last year, Turtoring started for the entire school before the holidays. When picking my daughter up at 4:30 after tutoring the school was so packed with kids staying after school for tutoring. It looked as if the school was in full session. I have never seen anything like it. Mind you our shool is 'RECONGNIZED' in the states school rating system. The government is cramming so much, so fast at our kids, our kids are suffering for it. 'LET OUR KIDS BE JUST THAT KIDS', My daughter is a very smart girl and I don't believe in all of these so called disorders,syndromes etc. What happened to the basic concept of elementary school. Teaching our children that learning can be 'FUN'. We are not having fun here, three to four hours of homework every freaking night is not making learning fun. We studied for four test that she will be taking tomorrow, plus reading her library book so she can yet take anothe! r test 'ON FRIDAY' for AR points. Five test in one day for a s! econd gr ader, thats not having fun you guys!!!! My oldest daughter is now in the 10th grade with all A's and the highest grade in her entire 10th grade class at her school for Geometry. She didn't have to suffer the of this new school system my youngest is having to. I feel the government is doing our kids an injustice by this new school in our country. We all want our kids to excel in school, come on now we have to keep them there first and this is going to send alot of them packing. Yea, Yea I know we'll be threatened with jail and such. I'm scared! It is taking my husband, my oldest daughter, myself, and littlebits teacher (which deserves the teacher of all times award)and we are all tired. To think it gets even harder from here. Everyone should buck up and speak out about this. Good luck to all of our children!!! Thanx, from no fun allowed in Texas!"

07/11/2005:
"My Daughter almost didn't make it into 6th grade but the teacher thought we would 'see how she does'. She was diagnosed with ADD and has trouble getting started and staying focused. Medication didn't help. The last quarter of 5th grade was a struggle to say the least and she lied to her Dad and I about homework being turned in. The standards and volume of work was overwhelming for her and even for her twin brother who does great. My Daughters self esteem has been greatly affected. The kids in her class last year corrected each others work which was embarassing for her when she would get a bad grade. My Husband and I helped all we could. She was denied special ed classed and Summer school was only an option for 1st and 2nd graders. There were 30 kids in that class!!! It was really a sad year for her and I don't know what to do about this next year."

07/11/2005:
"my son has had behavior and academic difficulty at times in the past 9 yrs of school,hes in 9th grade,in grammar school the counselor went along with anything the teacher said,not really giving the child an oppurtunity to talk much,in middle school,the counselor was great,very helpful,to my son and myself,we lost his father when he was in 8th grade,and this counselor was amazing,in finding grief resourses,thank you"

06/27/2005:
"this article provides parents with a starting point. My child has not yet started school but this will help me ask the questions that matter and give me an idea of what is relevant when selecting a school."

05/9/2005:
"I am a mother of a struggling student. I am very much grateful for this article because I've been really thinking of finding a tutor for my daughter who will be moving out of the middle school next school year. I am not sure how and where I can get a tutor that will be able to help my daughter to succeed in school. Thanks so much for this."

04/19/2005:
"I am struggling with my 10yr old 5th grade daughter. She is very bright and intelligent, however her grades do not seem to reflect that. I am astonished that this type of thing can happen. I think the ratio for student/teacher is very poor. There are too many students for one teacher. Teachers cannot readily seek out those children that struggle like mine. It is April and there only 8 weeks left for school. My daughter's grades did not show improvement from her last report card. It is tough to be both the parent and the teacher at home. I expect to review the lesson with my child not teach it. It is also tough to keep up with the demands of learning new things when she has not even mastered what was taught last week. I do not believe that my child is dumb. She is so eager to learn, but struggles to understand all that is asked of her. I can just imagine when she gets to middle school or high school. I hope that I can prevent her from failing so much and be able! to learn the basics so that she can move on. Currently, I have to take her to an outside mental health evaluation to help figure out the problem. Can't we have at least one or two counselors at the school?? I always see one too many ladies working in the office. Why are they there and not a school counselor? I am not aware of any resources available. Things were not this bad when I went to elementary 20 years ago and most of us turned out fine. What is it with today's schools??"

04/13/2005:
"It seems since the NCLB law has been passed there have been more problems with students needing help than before. The trouble with leaving it up to the parents to enforce is that many of these students at-risk have parents that are not in a position to help. Some of the parents have the same problems as their children. Since the schools don't have the funding or the grant writers to write the grants, the answer to many of the above questions is simply no. The theory behind this is a good one, but the reality is, it's not working in our schools. The students are being taught to pass a test, not to learn how to think and reason for themselves. They are being told what to do rather than learning how to do it on their own. I am the local CHADD site facilitator. CHADD is a support group for Children and Adults with Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. In the past parents have tried to use the law to get their child the help they need to succeed. However, the child is usually ready to go on to the next grade or finished with school, before it even reaches the point that the law will take affect. It also creates friction among the teachers and students in the middle of these legal disputes. Many parents are not in a position to do all the follow-up work necessary to help their child succeed in school. Many of them also have ADHD or dyslexia and filling out paper work or keeping track of what is happening in their child's school, in addition to trying to hold down a job, is not something they can do effectively. They don't want their child going to a different school. They would rather see the school they are attending get the funding needed to help the students that are at-risk. Giving a school a bad reputation only hurts the students that have to attend that school. When a child is told they can play football for a school, but they cannot attend classes because of their behavior issues, something needs to be done to change that attitude. It's unfortunate when a sport becomes more important to a school than academics."

04/13/2005:
"In response to the gentleman from Louisiana, I am experiencing the same thing with my daughter and problems adjusting to a new school and is currently on the edge of failing 2 classes for the past 2 exams taken. The teacher did not inform me she failed these exams. I went through her binder and found the grades. I'm concerned she won't pass to the next level. What resources have you found to help me help her. Her main problem is reading comprehension which is carrying over to math. Thanks."

03/15/2005:
"It would be nice if teachers would follow-up with the parent(s) when even just one or two children do poorly on a given test or project. That parental contact could make a difference. Without such contact, the child may continue to fall behind, unable to catch up. Parents often aren't aware of each and every grade that a child gets on in class work and such. Some parents don't even check homework when it is completed(or to make sure that it is completed. I think that teachers should have a weekly checklist of some sort that the parent(s) will be able to look at and see if there is something their child may need assistance with. Maybe the teacher isn't teaching to the needs of all of the students...or is not very well versed in a certain area. It is a pity that there isn't departmentalization beginning in maybe 4th grade. The children wouldn't necessarily have to move (unless they were advanced or delayed), but the teachers would shift from classroom to classroom. I h! ave been an early childhood educator for over 20 years. There are so many things that can be done beginning with the youngest children. Things that could make it much easier on the schools when it comes to finding a student in the 4th or 5th grade 'suddenly' in need of special services and then finding out that the child was referred for evaluation in preschool! This has happened far too often for me, either because the parent seems to dismiss it, or the staffing personnel don't think that it is a serious enough issue. I'm spewing........ sometimes, I just get frustrated with all of the bureaucracy. Thanks for your great website."

02/22/2005:
"For the lady in Arizona: I also live in Arizona (Scottsdale) and have a son who will be 11 in April. He was diagnosed with the inattentive type of ADD last August. He has had an IEP in place (even though we didn't have a formal diagnosis) since 2nd grade. He began taking Ritalin last December and is having GREAT success. We have also found a WONDERFUL school here in Scottsdale, The New Way Learning Academy, which is for children (k-12) with learning differences. Our son is also seeing a counselor in Scottsdale for social skills training (Dr. Sally Logerquist). She specializes in kids with ADD/ADHD and works with them on social skills, self-esteem, school strategies, and home strategies. She has helped my son (and me) enormously. Dr. Clare Jones (on the board of CHADD, speaks nationally on ADD/ADHD) also lives and practices in Scottsdale and is another EXCELLENT resource. I have had to become very tough, persistent, and involved with my son's teachers and school. You! may have to fight to get the assistance your son requires at his school, or find him a school that understands, respects, and delivers the education needs. I worry that homeschooling him will only hurt him more socially later in his life. I also did a google search on school accomodations for kids with ADD/ADHD and took a three page list in to my son's school for a meeting with his teacher and the special education teacher. I had to educate them somewhat. We went through the list together and improved his IEP quite a bit. Don't be afraid to insist that strong language be included in his IEP. Replace the word 'may' with the word 'requires'. Example: My son requires frequent breaks, instructions clarified, preferrential seating, etc. Read as much as you can. Organize your home as much as you can. My son has a daily, weekly, and a monthly calendar posted in our home that he and I can refer to that helps us remember when he needs to take his musical instrument to sc! hool, when major assignments are due, what time Karate is that! day, (a nd Karate- the RIGHT karate has been an EXCELLENT help as far as routine and discipline for him) etc. He has a clear and strict daily routine (and life is so much easier for all of us with this in place), which includes bedtime, mealtime, shower every morning, clothes laid out at night, etc. He does not handle transitions or the unexpected well, so we plan ahead and make him aware of upcoming plans and events. I keep his clean socks in the front hall closet where his shoes are. I keep his boxers in a bin in the bathroom. Little things like this help him so much. We have no TV or video games at all from Sunday at 5:00 pm until Friday after school. This has been a GREAT thing for our family. There is no more rushing through homework to get to the TV/Nintendo. No more 'zoning' out for hours. No more complaining about chores or family time because they would rather watch cartoon network! We also limit their viewing/gaming on weekends. Yes, it was VERY tough the first ! few weeks and we received a LOT of resistance, but they (both boys - other son is almost 9)are fine with it now and it has IMPROVED our family time and interactions enormously! I can be reached at valleysteps@cox.net should you have any questions for me. Good Luck!!!"

02/22/2005:
"The questions asked in this article are important if your child is having problems. I personally asked these question and was surprised what I learned. The only effort being made to assist my child who is having problems, are the sole efforts of myself and my wife!!!! We have met with the teachers of the problem subjects and was only offered their oppinions on the problems and two web sites. They informed us that the school has no programs or any assistance to provide us. We have utilize the internet and librarys for help. We are still in shock!!!"

02/16/2005:
"It is comforting and at the same time alarming to find that there are so many other parents struggling with the same issues. My son is 11 and has been diagnosed by a trusted physician when he was 8 of having AD/HD (the school psychologist confirmed diagnosis at age 9). We have tried different meds including Ritalin, Straterra, and now Adderral. He notices some improvement, but it is still really hard for him to concentrate and homework is a daily nightmare for him and me. His self-esteem is suffering severely and he panics quite a lot from not having finished his homework (after working on it for 7 hours, but not quite getting much done). I am currently looking into psychiatric and psychological help as well as self help groups for parents of AD/HD children. It is a very difficult struggle balancing side effects of the meds with dealing with plummeting self esteem. I'm almost to the point of taking him out of school and home-schooling him. My daughter supposedly also has AD/HD per the school psychologist, but her behavior is completely different than my sons. My son has concentration problems while my daughter (almost 8) has behavioral issues. My daugther is in ALP (gifted program), my son has tested three times for the last three years, but can never finish the test! It seems that there should be a different approach to teaching these special kids and they are not getting it at the school level. Some accommodations have been made for my son such as being able to keep a set of books at home (to avoid having to lug all his books to and from school each day and to minimize the amount of times he forgets to bring them to/from school/home, and he gets a bit more time to finish tests and some leeway on homework, but the amount of homework he has to do daily and the level of work he is doing in 5th grade is very surprising to me. I don't remember doing anything that difficult in 5th grade. He is struggling and I am almost at my wits end, especially when it comes to how depressed and anxious he ha! s become . He was this way before taking the AD/HD meds, but it has not helped much. I have considered doing a 504, but I'm not sure if it would help. He is an 'A' student in math and an 'F' student in history, so he doesn't qualify for resources at school. Anyone have any further suggestions. I'll try almost anything once to try and help my son (and daughter). Music? Physical movement? Multi-modal approach? Any suggestions would be appreciated. "

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