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How Important is Cultural Diversity at Your School?
Attending a school with a diverse student body can help prepare your child for citizenship in a multicultural democracy.
As the United States becomes a more culturally and ethnically diverse nation, public schools are becoming more diverse, too.
A Growing Trend The Census Bureau projects that by the year 2100, the U.S. minority population will become the majority with non-Hispanic whites making up only 40% of the U.S. population. No doubt students will need to learn how to interact in a diverse environment. Jean Snell, clinical professor of teacher education at the University of Maryland, believes cultural diversity enhances the school experience, too. "There is a richness that comes from students working side by side with others who are not of the same cookie-cutter mold," she notes.
Students who attend schools with a diverse population can develop an understanding of the perspectives of children from different backgrounds and learn to function in a multicultural, multiethnic environment. Yet, as public schools become more diverse, demands increase to find the most effective ways to help all students succeed academically as well as learn to get along with each other. Teachers are faced with the challenge of making instruction "culturally responsive" for all students while not favoring one group over another. A 2007 study by Public Agenda and the National Comprehensive Center for Teacher Quality found that 76% of new teachers say they were trained to teach an ethnically diverse student body but fewer than 4 in 10 say their training helps them deal with the challenges they face.
Schools Must Take a Proactive Approach to Acknowledging Diversity A parent needs to look beyond the numbers to evaluate a school's approach to diversity. To create a positive environment where students and teachers are respectful of different backgrounds, schools have to be proactive. "Above all, schools shouldn't just do nothing," says Rosemary Henze, associate professor of linguistics and language development at San Jose State University in California and author of Leading for Diversity: How School Leaders Promote Positive Interethnic Relations.
Structured classroom activities can highlight diversity. She suggests that teachers structure their teaching to acknowledge different perspectives. For example, in a history lesson about the Vietnam War, they should draw attention to the perspectives of North as well as South Vietnamese citizens, the feelings of the soldiers and diverse views of Americans. In a classroom the teacher can structure learning groups that are diverse and devise activities that require each student to contribute to the group. In this way students learn that each person in a group can contribute and has something of value to say.
Mutual respect is part of the equation. Henze believes teachers should never tolerate disrespect. They should establish ground rules for the class, and even let the kids help to establish these rules.
She also believes the principal has a huge role in creating an environment where people respect the opinions of others and are open to multiple perspectives on any issue. This should be modeled for students, and in relations with faculty and staff, as well.
No Child Left Behind shines the light on achievement gaps among diverse groups of students. The federal No Child Left Behind law has put pressure on schools to see that all students succeed, regardless of their ethnic or language background. Schools are required to meet state "adequate yearly progress" (AYP) goals for their total student populations and for specified demographic subgroups, including major ethnic/racial groups, economically disadvantaged students, limited English proficient (LEP) students, and students with disabilities. If these schools fail to meet AYP goals for two or more years, they are classified as schools "in need of improvement" and face consequences. A broad approach works best to address achievement gaps.
Belinda Williams, an education researcher and co-author of Closing the Achievement Gap: A Vision for Changing Beliefs and Practices, advises school leaders to implement a broad range of strategies to improve teaching and learning, rather than instituting quick fixes to address the achievement gap. The book argues that educators must become more sensitive to the world views of disadvantaged students — and incorporate this awareness into their day-to-day work.
Henze sees value in organizing special events at the school that raise awareness about diversity but warns that "these events should be built into the fabric of the school, rather than being a one-shot deal."
Schools should strive to create an environment where all children feel valued and all children can learn. Snell says the principal should set the tone by having a policy of "no excuses." If there is a problem with a particular student, she says principals and teachers should ask themselves, "What do we need to do to ensure that this child is engaged in learning?" and "What more can we do?" This may mean following up to see that the student has the proper place to study, healthy meals and all the support he needs.
What parents can do to promote a positive environment that fosters achievement for all students at the school:
  • Find your school and check the test scores on the school profile, and where available, pay particular attention to the results by subgroup.
  • If your school has disparities in outcomes for different groups of students (often called "the achievement gap"), you should ask why and find out what measures the school is taking to close the gap.
  • Ask how the school addresses the needs of diverse students and if there are support programs available for students who are not meeting the standards. Ask if there is specialized instruction for students who are English language learners.
  • Does the school have a cultural fair or assembly to highlight diversity? If not, work with your PTA or parent group to organize one.
  • Express your concern if you see different discipline consequences for different groups of students, or if the best teachers are only teaching the strongest students.
  • Observe who is involved in student leadership. Is it an ethnically diverse group? If not, ask why.
  • Does the school have tracked classes for high and low ability grouping? If so, if you see racial or ethnic patterns in these classes, i.e. more racial minorities in lower ability groups, ask why.
  • What's the makeup of the school staff? Are all the teachers white and all the aides people of color? Is there a racial hierarchy at the school? Ask what the school can do to change these patterns.
  • Does your parent group reach out to parents of ethnically diverse students?
  • Don't be alarmed if you see groups of students separating by ethnic group at lunch or recess. "It's not necessarily a bad thing to be in their own group at recess," says Henze. "They can gain a lot from a feeling of belonging." But do pay attention to what goes on in the classroom. "Classroom activities that give kids the opportunity to interact with different groups can help to break down barriers," notes Henze.
  • Does the principal use a variety of avenues to get parental input? Henze says, "Parental involvement may not be a cultural expectation in some cultures. Schools should not ignore the silent parents. Principals need to listen to all parents and experiment with other ways of getting parental input—written forms, translators and phone calls. Schools should find multiple ways and times to communicate, not just when there are problems with a student."
Helpful Books Leading for Diversity: How School Leaders Promote Positive Interethnic Relations by Rosemary Henze, Corwin Press, 2002
Closing the Achievement Gap: A Vision for Changing Beliefs and Practices by Belinda Williams, Association for Supervision & Curriculum Development, 2003
Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? And Other Conversations About Race by Beverly Daniel Tatum, Basic Books, 1999
Updated June 2008

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07/17/2008:
"I am Jewish and all of the Jewish-Americans that I know willfully self-segregate our families to a few suburbs and we typically don't favor sending our own kids to 'diverse' schools, and we rarely choose to live in diverse locales. In Israel, (which almost of American Jews support), 'diversity' is rejected outright, and a Jew and non-Jew are not even permitted to marry! For Jews, diversity is for others, but not our families and society. I wonder where Ms. Rosenthal, the author, grew up and where she attended school. Does she live in a diverse area currently? Anyone know?"
07/7/2008:
"I am completely fine with 'diversity' as long as every group gets recognized - including white. I see time and time again - Hispanic Awareness Week, Black History Month, and so on and so forth. That's all well and good for the white students to learn about other cultures, but shouldn't we teach the other cultures and ethnicities about the rich heritage of white culture as well? All I hear for that is 'white supremacists,' 'racists,' and the KKK shoved down my throat. Why the double-standard? Are we to believe that the other cultures that comprise our society are blameless calves, devoid of any dark chapter, and that caucasian society is the 'devil' with absolutely no positive influence whatsoever? When I was a student long ago, I remember being in Kindergarten and finding myself sitting next to an African American. You want to know what I was thinking? I was thinking, 'I sure hope I can be friends with him.' You know who helped me understand that people are not alway! s the same color, but that doesn't mean they're any different than me? My parents, not school. I agree with other posters - let parents teach diversity and stop teaching it at school - because it's not being 'taught.' It's being preached that evry culture is important, except white culture. And last time I checked, devaluing one ethnicity to another is racism."
07/7/2008:
"I agree that schools need diversity, but one also needs to keep in mind that prejudice comes in all shades --not just white. Don't think for a minute that the children who are born white are not discriminated against by other races because they certainly are! Racism is sad by any view point-- asian, spanish, black, or white, or whatever. But the sad truth is that it comes in all forms. I have tried to teach my children to love and respect all races because in our belief we are ALL our GOD's children but truth be known there is prejudice in every school by EVERY race. I get so tired of the 'yeah, it's because I'm black' when --NO, it's not. It's upsetting that the 'N' word is strictly forbidden to be spoken by the white or other races because it is rude and obscene but the black children can call each other that word all day long-- so what exactly were they taught in their homes? If two white students or two black students have an argument or tussel at school-- that's what it is, but if a white student and a black student have an argument or fight, then the other boys or girls are brought in and it becomes a race thing? Respecting other cultures is of the upmost importance but it has to come from ALL sides. And just for the record... I am an African AMERICAN. You have to stand up and not be afraid to say 'It's wrong' no matter what race you are. Love to all. "
07/7/2008:
"The school district my family lives in has recently been changing to a diverse racial enrollment. We now have many black, hispanic & other students. We also now have gangs, violence, drugs, weapons, etc... My kids now go to private school. These 'diverse' kids and their parents, who do not care about anyone else but their own, should have their own school where they can perform these acts against each other while the students who want to have a good school experience can do so in peace."
07/7/2008:
"'This country was founded on diversity' That is just an outright lie and Marxist BS! Take away 'Latino' or 'African American' studies and see how well diversity works. It works great as long as you can trash Western culture and the white race. "
07/7/2008:
"I noticed in the table of ethnic background that Filipinos and Asians are put in separate categories. Are Filipinos not Asians? Why is there no separate category for Hmong, Vietnamese, Japanese, Chinese, etc.? On the one hand, I'm all for addressing issues related to different ethnic origins. I also understand the power of number (e.g. more Filipinos overall than any other Asian groups). On the other hand, if one is going to do this type of ethnic categorization, one should be consistent. "
07/7/2008:
"1) The white people of America are already a very ethnically diverse population. We derive from many European countries, many ethnicities, many languages, and live in diverse economic situations. The assumption that white culture is monolithic (homogeneous) is a bigoted anti-white stereotype. 2) The reference to American whites as 'non-Hispanic whites' is a label imposed on us American whites. I protest this labeling as designed to denigrate diverse white American families, yet this site promotes it."
07/7/2008:
"Our children went to a very diverse school in San Diego California. A Europeens they were just one of the many minorities at school, but never felt left out, isolated or threatened. Instead they have made a lot of friends from countries all over the world and learned that we may all be from different cultural background and yet are the same as human beings. The school enhances this thinking in many ways and handels diversity in a powerful manner. Heritage day and the International Festival celebrate our diversity. But the children know that they are in the United States of America and learn the values of this conuntry. Generations of Immigrants have shown that integration is possible without renunciation of their own cultural background And school is the best plave to teach this reality to our children everyday because young children are not full of hatred and prejudice as adults may be. Unlike stated in one comment, cultural diversity is not a garanty for lower test scores.! Our school has very high scores and has been a Calofornia Distinguished School for serveral consecutive years now with a high percentage of GATE students. Diversity does not automatically mean poverty, failure and violence. If everybody sticks to the commitment, it is a powerful and very rich environment to prepare our children for their future in a global world!"
07/7/2008:
"I grew up in a very non diverse high school. Following that I went to school/college and worked the rest of my life in a multi cultural diverse setting. I was initially in culture shock and then pleasantly surprised about the differences and similarities we all have. I highly recommend diversity and before moving to Sterling Hts was in a very diverse neighborhood, Asian, African Americans, Hispanic--all within our neighborhood. My children learned about other cultures, holidays like Kwanza, and how to respect not only themselves but others. I personally would like to see that in HFH II or even offer classes on it!"
07/7/2008:
"As a parent of two toddler boys (4 and 2 yrs. old), this article forced me to analyze my own view on such a topic. In reading several of the responses, it is obvious that the term 'Diversity' has various definitions for various people. There is no doubt, I want my children to be exposed to different cultures, belief's, and ethnic backgrounds while attending school. The problem begins when we define 'Diversity' solely on Family Background, Skin Color, or Ethnic Make-up. I believe 'Diversity' is defined more by 'Social Class' and 'Environmental' surroundings of a child. **Guess What, I have seen countless Hispanic, Black, White, or Asian Children I would NEVER want my children to Emulate. On the other-hand, I know many Hispanic, Black, White, and Asian children I would Be PROUD to call my OWN children. It is certainly UNfortunate that WE fear others as a result of their racial background. As an adult, that attitude is simply lack of exposure, or at its worst, a complete void of intelligence that comes with extreme racism. If a child is introduced to a school system that promotes Diversity, but does not 'divide' as a result of that diversity, only positive can come from such an environment. The problems surface, when the systems' core structure promotes separation (whether it is done consciously or unconsciously). In addition, The school is only a small percentage of the issue. A childs' parents, their families, and their associates, have a substancial impact on how that child will treat their fellow students. I am a Black Man born and raised in OC. As most Black families in the Mid-Seventies, we were NOT as financially secure as the majority of White Families in our neighborhood. I attended a local H.S. with approx. 4,200 students. Twelve (yes, 12) of them were black. I was NOT mistreated (99.9 percent of the time). I had White, Black, Hispanic, and Asian friends (as is the case today). The only time I felt demeaned was, on 2 separate occassions, when I was turned down for a date because their parents would not allow them to date a 'black-guy.' Well I am now a Commercial Aviator, and Married to a Beautiful Doctor (Thank God her parents understood Diversity). I often wonder if those 2 girls went on to be successful in their lives? To sum this up, DO NOT decide whether your child attends a school solely on the 'Race Make-Up,' which some might call 'diversity.' Rather: Select an educational institution that will encourage your children to strive and reach their UTMOST potential.! In addition, that institution should introduce children to the various opportunities and advantages this Wonderful Country has to offer for any person that is willing to mature into a positive contributor of our society. "
07/3/2008:
"Yes,this country was established by extremely hard headed and wealthy individuals that established a reputation for the maintinence of those nefarious deeds.But they died off and left behind those still entrenched hatreds ubatended.Diversity before,during,and after education leaves the student one oportunity in diversity in post education.Conscription did improve the call to brotherhood,but was for the wrong cause.A one year conscription at age 18 towards the development of the American infrasructure might be the answer to a nessesary primer towards a cohesive society that places value in diversity and less in oportunistic shame."
07/2/2008:
"Well...if you think of it as diverse in many different ethnic backgrounds then yes it is; however, the teachers don't seem to handle that diversity very well. They all need to take diversity training. This diversity would be with the parents of the students going to Conrad. I think if they understood the backgrounds of some of the parents they would understand the students better"
07/2/2008:
"Diversity in and of itself means nothing. As an Hispanic parent of three, I could care less what the ethnic makeup sof my children's schools are. The ethnic makeup of a school neither gives me a 'warm fuzzy' nor does it make me want to run to the next suburb. What I do value in a school is whether it is filled with a majority of children who have BOTH parents, who are NOT on free or reduced lunch plans, whose parents are DEDICATED and INTERESTED in their children's academic success more than anything. That type of school will succeed under any circumstance, because the unavoidable truth in education is that no amount of headstart, afterschool, or diversity programs can ever take the place of a good set of dedicated parents."
07/2/2008:
"I could care less about another students ethnic back ground in school. My children are there to learn reading writing and math. The schools cant seem to get that right with all the work they sent home for the parents to help the kids with. Please stop with the diversity and start teaching. If people in the stopped focusing on peoples color and focused on teaching maybe the kids would learn. "
07/2/2008:
"Oh my God, I am so disappointed at what I am reading about multicultural democracy. Who are you people here? I have never experienced so much disrespect towards African Americans and others that are NOT WHITE or perceived to be Caucasian as I have in this city and at Hurley. No wonder these kids are off-the-hook! Yes, I used the word “off-the-hook�. Disrespectful and looking at the color of one's skin instead of what is inside their heart. They are precious and learn what they see and hear in their homes. The real world is not what a lot of you are writing. Your children are going to grow up and perhaps move and the hate that I am reading will harm them later in life! The children are in school to learn, give respect, be respected and learn for whom they are and where they happen to be. Human beings, OUR FUTURE are who they are! Why does it matter if a Muslim needs special praying times or… What does it matter if a Christian child wants to pray over their food at lunch? It’s the parent’s that are taking the innocence out of these children and causing the problems that I have witnessed and seen at Hurley and at such young ages. SICK-OOS! Instead of worrying about who is what? Why don't you concentrate on the education that is being provided and what we can collectively do as parents to help Hurley become what is needed for our children. More diversity will mean more participation from the staff of the school as well as the parents. What is wrong with that! Yes crime, fighting and all that is a part of the world. The shootings at schools are mainly what race? Visalia is made up of what race that has the jobs that pay? So, let’s not go there, let’s not twist the facts! Discrimination is so blatant here I am not sure how it has gotten so far out of hand and why no one has challenged it yet? I would also like to see more African American Staff and other ethnicity hired at Hurley. How can you have multicultural democracy if the staff is not multicultural? "
07/2/2008:
"thank you so much for this information. Cultural diversity is not only important to me but also for my children. My children like to personally take tours of the schools to see for themselves. To see where they may or may not fit in or if they will be judged based on differences, race, etc. "
07/2/2008:
"I am a parent of Burch students, we have completed our first year at Burch, so far I have seen fairness in the various ethnic groups. I chose Burch because of it's equal numbers of black and white students. I believe diversity is good but one ethnic group should not outweigh another because then the majority will rule. Children don't care who is sitting next to them, all they see is a friend and so should we. Anyone can learn in the right environment where the Principal, Teachers and staff work together to acheive that oneness they can pass down to the students. No matter what is taught at home, a child can learn to get along with children of other ethnic gropus, if they are exposed to them. God Bless America!"
07/2/2008:
"diversity will kill american! :-("
07/2/2008:
"Diversity is good for everyone, even for those persons who do not like or will accept change. All parents need to realize that no matter how they may feel about diversity and how they were raised. Diversity is here and here-to-stay. I think that parents will do a great disservice to thier children who are our future generation. Particularly, if you try to isolate your children because you may think that they are better than a child that looks differently, speaks differently, learns differently, etc. Instead of looking at diversity pessimistically, how about taking some time to learn and teach your child about cultures outside of their own. Also, when someone treats a child bad because they're different, the self-esteem of that child can manifest, negatively towards other children. Consequently, this behavior can bring down a schools morale which eventually affects learning. Also, your child may be confused about what they learn from their parents once they realize tha! t parents have isolated them from other culutres. So you see? No one wins when PARENTS try to isolate their children from outside cultures. It is time to stop the biases, the hate, racism, anti-culturism and the like because no matter what you teach your children. They will find out for themselves as they learn and grow in society and as individuals. PARENTS, face it, you will become old, you will eventually pass away, you may even become sick and how do you want to be remembered, what legacy will you leave for your loved ones, what do you expect them to contribute to society? How to hate, how to maintain division, although they have to interact in the workplace, in public places, maybe in holy matrimony. It's time to put what your ancestors may have instilled in you For this very same reason of division in this society, along with my passion for children, I will be entering into the Educational system as an elementary Teacher. I will make a difference in ALL children's lives by teaching them while allowing them to love and embracing their own cultures and to accept other cultures. I believe every HUMAN BEING has something to contribute to this society. I love to learn about different cultures and Teachers need to take part in CHANGE because Teachers have such a major impact on our children and it should be a positive one. Again DIVERSITY is here to stay, no matter how hard you try to fight against it. Kudos for Diversity"
07/2/2008:
"To the poster that asked if we had asked our children how they feel about diversity, I would like to respond with this, I didn't need to as my daughter let me know every day. My daughter is half white, half mexican. she is a beautiful girl, smart, witty, with a high self esteem thank god. Why? because the hispanic students at her school made life miserable for her. she was teased, taunted, called a sellout who was 'against her people' during the illegal immigration marches. Her car has been broken into, vandalized, her posessions stolen, and threatened with bodily harm. Why did they do this to her? Because she does not speak spanish by her choice, she does not listen to their music or dress as they dress. Because according to her, she is an American. I find it hypocritical at best that the 'cultures' that demand that we celebrate their culture and heritage flat out refuse to celebrate anyone elses culture and heritage. My daughter went through hell being of mixed race, but not from the 'majority' white students who welcomed her with smiles, friendships, support during the difficulties, and fond memories, but by the hands of the minority group in her school that felt she wasn't 'mexican' enough. So, yeah, I know how my daugther feels about diversity. She felt the negitive effects of it every day by the very people whe demand it."
07/2/2008:
"I come from a very small town where diversity would have to be looked up in the dictionary by a great deal of the villagers. It's a shame because our children could learn so much from other cultures. It is an area in which our school could greatly benefit the community if it taught diversity, but more importantly practiced it."
07/2/2008:
"If I wanted my children to attend a 'cultural diversity' school, I would of moved to College Park in ATL and paid $150,000.00 for a house instead of $350,000.00 in east Cobb. Not all of us are 'Politically Correct'. Some of us still believe that, if you study hard, no matter what your race is....you will succeed on your own and not have to rely on getting further ahead in life by just being a 'token'. There is a reason why the most segregated day is on Sunday......look at who attends your church."
07/2/2008:
"After reading several of the comments about diversity in the public schools one could get the impression that diversity and violence in shcool are inevitable. This is a very superficial judgment. Due to the history of racism in the United States, diversity and poverty usually accompany each other. Poverty instills hoplessness and anger in those who grow in such an envioronment. When we truely integrate the economic system and the ideal of equality and justice for all is a reality then the beauty of cultural diversity will propel the educational system and this country to levels of achievement not yet imagined."
07/1/2008:
"There seemed to be little ethnic diversity in my son's school in NH. Not surprising. We came from central Florida and my son started school where he was almost a minority being white. I think it is much better for children to grow up with diversity as it becomes a way of life and all races seem to blend better. When kids learn at a young age that no matter what the color, we are all basically the same, that feeling carries on throughout life. I love living in the Northeast, but the lack of diversity is a drawback in my opinion. "
07/1/2008:
"This school system is very racist. The children are racist in their approach to minority children and the administration is clueless in their response to complaints. It is a very uncomfortable place for minority children."
07/1/2008:
"After reading many of these answers it is clear to me that this country truly is made up of Blue and Red states, and that we should split the country in half. One side being what america stands for: that anyone of any race or any color can make it here, fairly. And the other side being, well 'im white, and I'm entitled to whatever I want because my grandaddy said so' If you only want your children to go to an all white school, you should buy an island and move there. If you don't teach tolerance to your children, you are not preparing them for the real world. They will not get far thinking they are better than someone else based on how they look. NOW on the other hand, My daughter is bi-racial and is a school with 2% black students. Although she is extremely bright, she is having major self confidence issues that I believe have nothing to do with other kids making fun of her or anything like that. She just feels insecure about the way she looks, having very curly hair and bronze skin. I think it is very important to look at schools ethnicities before moving to that district. LIKE I SAID, IF YOU WANT TO SEGREGATE YOUR OWN KIDS TO KEEP THEM 'SAFE' MOVE TO AN ISLAND AND RAISE THEM IN ISOLATION...OTHERWISE YOU ARE UNPREPARING THEM FOR REAL WORLD."
06/20/2008:
"I am all for diversity, I grew up in a town where 60+ of the population where migrant workers in central Ca and 20% where Armenian and the rest white or other. However, what I see and what statistics say seems to be in contrast to one another. I see in Rancho Santa Margarita and in the elementary school my kids attend, a majority being Spanish Hispanic, with whites and Asians next. For example, I walked around Irvine Spectrum today with my kids. 6/20/08. I saw an overwhelmingly large amount of Asians, everywhere it had to be like 7-3 Asian over white. With Asians and Middle Eastern people next and only a hand full of whites in the elementary school where my kids attend. This landscape is and has definitely changed. I'm not saying it's for the worse or better... it just is. When I am a middle age 40's white male trying to apply for a job where I know I am qualified, applying to a company which shows on their web site not a single white male, I know something has changed, and by the way I have not been called for an interview from his company which has had two positions open up (the same job description) 3 months apart, I submit my resume yet I get no calls. This company proudly boasts about diversity and its pro Affirmative Action policy, considering the “protective class issue going on in America� is my situation a coincidence? And yes, 90% of the people shown on the company web site in photos are Asian, and the CEO, Fred Chang is Asian. To be fair I did see one white man on the web site. Also in the interest in fairness and full disclosure on my part, this company who I applied to is in the city of Industry, CA. I do not know the demographics of the entire company, as it has over 1,500 employees. "
06/20/2008:
"After attending a multicultural school in California.... I have decided that under NO circumstances are my children going to attend a school with a diverse student body. The guy I went to prom with now works for the PRC in Communist China. Most of my friends families were just living in the US to make money, but are not Americans. We were all afraid to stand at the front of the school because if you would be harassed by Hispanic Gangs. Diversity is great! "
06/18/2008:
"i come from a diverse school and i found it to be very inlighting, i had many friends from all differnt cultures, i didnt feel threatend or mistreated.After reading some of theses comments i have to say that well...some of you ppl are very sheltered and close minded.Just becasue Black kids go to ur child school doesnt mean he/she is doomed forever.It just makes me sad, Even when i was in school my white friends parents didnt want them th date the kids of color.I find this happening still today and i think it is VERY stupid LOVE has no color.....think about it"
06/18/2008:
"Oh! WOW, I am so glad that I was able too review this site before making the decision to move into your district of parents that have nothing better to do but put each other down and just think of yourselves and not think of the children! Have any of you parents sat down and talked too your children and asked then about how they feel ,learning and growing among children of other cultures?.My 4th grader has learned so much from being around children of other cultures! It would be really nice if we could put our own selfishness aside and nurture our children and respect each other and teach our children the same!Don't we all teach our children to share with one another from birth? So, does this stop and do we teach them different, once they start school? There will never be enough money with in the school system to go around! Soooo lets practice what we teach our children! SHARE!!!! and less complaining.And for the person that is celebrating your culture in silence! Shame on y! ou! You need too love yourself and the life you were given and teach your children the same.Do all of you that are being ugly in the way you are talking ,feel good about yourselves? Is this what our children of the future have too look forward too? Diversity is here and not going anywhere!We are all in this together, whether we like it or not,let's do our best for our children and allow them too love and respect each other for who they are and we will all be fine!It's us adults that ruin our children, with our critical, self centered way of being! Let's all learn from our children! They all love one another! They just want too play and have fun!!!!!! God Bless All of YOU!"
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